Superiority Complex...... A Disease

It is rightly said that there are two kinds of pride, both good and bad. ' Good pride represents our dignity and self respect . ' Bad pride' is the deadly sin of superiority that reeks of conceit and arrogance. 

It has been observed that pride is usually practiced in bad way rather in good. People who have superiority over others in money, fame, health, beauty or any other thing look down upon those who are inferior to them in any way. Even, sometimes, their behavior towards underlings is very cruel and harsh because they think that they are chosen ones to be blessed with higher ranks.

The worst kind of superiority complex is when someone treat orphans badly. Being an orphan is not by choice instead its a condition that divine God put on some people. Orphans need special care and attention as they lost their dear ones who were supposed to look after them.  Pride should be practiced in positive rather than negative way. It shouldn't be converted into feeling of being superior over others. 

Nazia Jamal's story " https://www.afsanay.com/urdu-novels/realistic-urdu-novels/tahi-dast-6" exactly presented the picture of a family falling a prey to superiority complex and their cruel and underestimating conduct for an orphan girl. 
She was mistreated badly by all the family members with whom she was living. she wasn't fed well, dressed well and wasn't provided with proper education that every person on earth deserves. 

Instead of being loved, she was treated like a servant who has to do all the tasks from household to serving everyone in the house only because she didn't have her parents to nurture her. The story presents before us an abominable picture of the society and the carefree conduct of people towards such deserving beings. 
To read full story click the link below:

https://www.afsanay.com/urdu-novels/realistic-urdu-novels/tahi-dast-6

The Most Valuable Asset..... Parents

" Love your parents. We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old."

There is no other relation ever in the world like the true relation of parents as they have unconditional, pure and sincere love for their children. They make every effort to bring up and look after them  and to meet their needs. They are the ultimate role models for their kids.
But the point to be considered here is , as sons or daughters, are we giving them back the same love and attention that we receive. As we grow young, our parents grow old and they also seek affection and tenderness from us.
It is generally observed that daughters are more responsible and solicitous toward their parents as compare to sons. Daughters have proved themselves to be better and precious child than sons in serving their parents during whole life but still parents are always more prone to have a son child.....
The story " Na Hondi Main" by " Nighat Abdullah" presented the picture of responsible daughters and carefree son. Parents brought up their only son with a lot more love and care but when it came to serving them back he left them on their own. Only their daughter took the responsibility and served them to the end. 
 To read the story of that responsible girl click the link below and enjoy reading....

https://www.afsanay.com/urdu-novels/realistic-urdu-novels/na-hondi-main-4/pages?page=9

Women Oppression

Can women exploitation be stopped???
Exploitation of woman by woman is a common complication of our society since long. Its a surprising fact that women are being ill treated  especially when it comes to their mother-in- laws or sister- in -laws, despite the fact that they themselves are women and somewhere they are playing the same role as that woman whom they are oppressing. Its the story of every other family where women are mistreated.

Best Narratives ( Urdu Novels and Afsanay)

We all need a little good stuff to read in our lives, and one can have this on the folios of urdu novels , a collection of distinguished and heart rendering stories ( romantic, realistic,tragic) that can entice their readers. From " Ankh or Manzar" to " Hasil e Zeest" there is a list of classic stories that are assured to make you feel fortunate reading them. Whatever you like to read, classsic urdu novels is the best place to visit...